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MLM Team-Building

By Michael Dlouhy

You get a great sense of satisfaction by giving with no strings attached. You can give material things, or your time, or your expertise. Doing so puts you in the right frame of mind to talk to other people about your MLM opportunity. You know you are acting in their best interest, and that is a real key.

I have driven to New York twice, to help team members when they were ready to move - one to Florida, the other to Kentucky. My son Matthew went with me and helped. I think you, as the leader of your group, need to be Example #1 of bonding and relationship-building. For your people to work well together and to really perform and prosper as a team, they need that example. When they see you walking the talk, how can they do any less?

Not too long ago, I drove 500 miles round-trip to cut down a tree for one of my team. The tree was dead, it was threatening their home, and I’ve cut down a lot of trees in my life. Linda and Matthew came with me. We made a day of it, cutting down the big old hickory tree and cutting it into pieces and hauling it all to their burn pile. We all felt great on that 250 mile ride back home. Do you think an act of kindness like that will create a long-lasting effect? I believe it does. A single act like that can set in motion a series of acts of kindness. Isn’t that a great legacy to give your team?

The lesson is simple: just look for opportunities to help.
Then do so eagerly, with no expectation of return.

But trust me, you will get the return. Immediately, your life is filled with strong positive feelings and content. Who knows what future cycles of kindness you may have started? And last, but certainly not least - you have strengthened your network marketing relationships.

That’s definitely not a bad thing.

Your friends for life,

Michael & Linda Dlouhy

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Create your Future, Believe in your Dreams
Debbie & Dennis Engler

MLM Relationships - Look Beyond Behavior

By Michael Dlouhy

People don’t always do the right thing. And 98% of these “wrong things” fall in the category of “small stuff.” So when somebody screws up, take a moment to put it in perspective. A year from now, will you even remember it? Bottom line: don’t invest your time and your emotion in something that is trivial.

The logical extension of this thought is, whenever someone does some act that you don’t approve, train yourself to think of them with kindness. If you consider the situation to be truly serious, then advise them how you would handle it. And then let it go.

Nothing is - or needs to be - perfect. “Letting it go” is your best choice because you ultimately have no control over what any of your network marketing partners does. And, believe it or not, there’s always a fair chance you’ll learn something new and useful from how someone else handles a situation.

So observe, and try to understand why. And then either learn or let it go or both. Your MLM relationships always involve other people. You can count on regular annoyances. Long-term, they are meaningless … so don’t let it have any effect on your own productivity.

Your friends for life,

Michael & Linda Dlouhy
“Be a mentor with a servant’s heart!”

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Create your Future, Believe in your Dreams
Debbie & Dennis Engler

MLM Relationships - See the Innocence

By Michael Dlouhy

One thing network marketers do is … we wonder why other people do the things they do. Some of that stuff really seems irrational, doesn’t it? Selfish, mean, nuts? It’s frustrating just to think about someone doing those crazy things. Why can’t they be normal? Like … like … like US for instance!

And do you know what the height of this lunacy is? They … look at us … and think exactly the same thing!

Since they are so set in their crazy ways, maybe the smartest thing for us to do is to be a bit less bothered by their nuttiness.

One way to do this is to look beyond their behavior and into their soul. The vast majority of associates and prospects and family members aren’t being devious. They are just doing what they believe in. If you can look at the other person and see the innocence behind their behavior, then you can have compassion for them.

One area where others seem to often “go too far” is in their idea of how quickly we should be doing some pretty weird (probably unproductive) action, to help them in their MLM business. To them, it’s urgent. You, on the other hand, have 27 things on your list more urgent and more likely to produce good results. So just think of the frustration you feel when a project is urgent to you and you have to depend on someone else for the next step. That may make it easier to “feel their pain” and not be so bothered by their behavior.

We appreciate you!

Michael & Linda Dlouhy

Create your future, Believe in your Dreams
Debbie & Dennis Engler
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Which Way is Your Mind Going?

You are either growing better at what you are doing or losing more than what you have. You are never standing still. Take responsibility for where you are, do not blame anyone else. Are you on an upward curve or a downward curve in your life?

A lifetime can be wasted by the way you THINK about yourself. A true mental cleanse is worth more than physical exam. We need to cleanse our minds of chatter that does not empower us. Everyone needs that self-confidence that comes from within yourself. You have the resources, you just have draw them out and use them. You do not need the negative! Believe in yourself!

If you have ever read a self-improvement book, you will possibly understand why it is so important. If you have not read any self-help books, let me suggest several to start with. Contact me or download the e-book link below for "Success in Ten Steps" by Michael Dlouhy. We are here to change people's lives with the Mental Cleanse & Mentoring for Free.

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We are emotionally effected by what people say and how they respond to us. We can hurt someone deeply with our words or actions, but within your own mind, what you think, what you believe, affects you more than what others say or do. It affects you for good or it affects you negatively.

When you do not feel good about yourself it makes you want to hide, not face the world or even a friend. How will you end up if you continue with that mindset? Cleansing your mind from the negative influences will clean your mind like water cleanses the body.

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Believe in your dreams, Create your future
Debbie Engler

Ready, Fire, Aim = Learn to adjust from you're mistakes!

Cool, Clear Water

A support system in the network marketing business is like a fresh cool drink of clear water.

When your mouth is parched by a lack of prospects for your business, you need a drink of cool, clear water.

When your tongue is stuck to the roof of your mouth because you do not have all the answers, you need a drink of cool, clear water.

When you cannot lick your lips for lack of training in your business, you need a drink of cool, clear water.

A call from a friend can encourage you in life. A support team or mentor will keep you on track with any business.

You know how it feels to get an encouraging word, so pass it on!

Be encouraging and accountable to at least one other person in your business team outside of your own family to keep the momentum going and boost each other to the top.

Enjoy a drink of cool, clear water by being an encourager, motivator, and cheerful leader that someone else will want to follow.

Mentoring for Free is just that, training and helping others in any business for FREE.

Click on the link below and read the FREE e-book that became the first drink of cool, clear water for my life and business:

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Spring Comes After Winter

Has it been a discouraging winter in your networking business? Have you had many days without leads? Are unresponsive leads getting you discouraged? Are your business branches dry with no prospects on the horizon? You must remember that spring comes after winter!
New buds of prospects are hidden just beneath the surface. The flowers and leaves of a healthy, prosperous business are within your reach.
Stretch toward the sun until your mind is enlightened with renewed energy. Clear your mind of negative thoughts and focus on the way your business will grow this spring.
Drink from the resources that flow freely beneath your feet. We offer free training, support, and skills that will work with any network business you choose.
Absorb the nutrients of the soil where you are planted. Join with a team that will help you learn from their experiences as well as from your own. It is not your fault that you have failed.
Grow to new heights that the life inside you desires to achieve. Like the life within a seed or a dormant plant, you need to start with small steps and grow with a lot of potential.
Spring for us started with the downloading of an ebook that has changed our outlook on networking marketing. We have the hope and support to grow into a very successful lifestyle, like a small, seemingly insignificant seed that has the potential of growing into a great and mighty oak.
We are still budding and learning all we can from the free resources available through Mentoring For Free. Come and join us this spring in the garden where we are planted. We need your color.
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